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Welcome to How I Do It, the series in which we give you a seven-day sneak peek into the sex life of a stranger.
This week we hear from Alix Lynx, a 36-year-old OnlyFans creator and former porn star, who began filming subscription-based content in 2020.
She’s currently in a straight relationship, and only films solo or girl-on-girl content, although doesn’t identify as gay.
‘My partner is 100% fine with my job,’ Alix explains. ‘I’m not romantically involved with anyone who is not okay with my job. It’s pretty black and white, you’re either okay with it or you’re not.’
She finds sex ‘fun and satisfying’ and enjoys trying new things in the hopes her sex life will never grow stale.
When it comes to work, Alix says: ‘I offer a girlfriend experience where I talk to my subscribers and offer them a POV video. Even if I’m not in the mood for sex, I can get turn myself on very quickly.’
Without further ado, here’s how Alix got on this week.
The following is, as you might expect, NSFW…
Monday
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I wake up early and check emails before I’m out of bed. Mornings are admin-heavy — I reply to custom requests and respond to messages.
Once I’m up, I film a few custom ‘girlfriend experience’ video requests where I say the subscriber’s name and speak directly to him while I play with myself.
They love the intimacy of these videos, and they really feel connected to me. They don’t necessarily want me to orgasm (only abut 50% ask for this), they just want me to play with myself and tell them what to do.
They always want me to use a dildo for penetration, not just a vibrator.
After, I hit the gym for a weights session. Lifting makes me feel strong and focused, and gets me pumped for the day.
In the afternoon I have a girl-girl collab. I enjoy these days because it feels like catching up with a girlfriend, not just a colleague.
We start with mutual masturbation, while giving viewers jerk off instructions, and we both orgasm twice in this first scene. Then we 69 and have oral sex before using a dildo to do cowgirl and reverse cowgirl.
It’s strictly business and we get all the content we need before gossiping for an hour and exchanging stories about clients.
Tuesday
Today I film from home. I make coffee, answer messages, then go through my custom requests. I always say I’m a fantasy factory. If someone tells me what they’re into (and it’s within my boundaries), I’ll create it for them.
I won’t do anal sex, so not double penetration, and I get a lot of requests to smoke, but I’ve never touched a cigarette so I won’t do that either.
I film a few d**k rating videos, I rate between 50 and 100 penises a month. Some guys want small-penis humiliation and something very blunt, while others want reassurance.
They think I’m an expert because of my background in porn — and I have seen every size imaginable. There’s a base rate of £149 for a fully clothed rating, and it increases to £186 if they want topless or nude, or £223 for something more explicit.
Today I’m particularly surprised by how large someone is, and I tell them they’re blessed.
After a few hours of filming, I switch off my camera and invite over the man I’m seeing. As soon as he arrives we begin kissing and touching over our clothes, and soon I’m grinding on his lap — I love the build up.
We give each other oral sex and today I feel like having passionate sex with eye-contact in missionary, which feels great.
When I’m having sex in my personal life I’m able to really be in the moment, after doing this for so long, compartmentalising is easy.
Wednesday
Today is no sex and all business. I email my accountant and lawyer, review contracts, and organise expenses. I also have a few meetings with my social media manager and my PR team.
At lunch time I go for a long walk with my Aussie shepherd Aspen, to clear my head. People think my life is constant sex and travel, but a lot of it is spreadsheets and planning.
Back home, I look at what content is converting well, what platforms are pushing traffic, and how I can adjust. Running an OnlyFans page is like running any other business, you need to put in the time and energy.
I’m not mad about it being a sex-free day, as sex every day can get monotonous. Also, my vagina needs a break.
It gives me time to unwind and I put on my favourite show, Love on the Spectrum, then order from my favourite vegan restaurant for dinner. All in all, a super successful day and I feel like I got lots done.
Thursday
I’m off to a content creator collaboration event this weekend, so I have a lot of planning to do. I write a list of everything I need to bring, and get the house ready for my friend who is dog-sitting for me.
I invite my boyfriend for a couple drinks and tonight the intimacy feels more spontaneous. We’re present and playful, doing oral before having slightly rougher sex. We do doggy, missionary and more.
One thing this industry has given me is a lot of confidence in the bedroom. I’m comfortable communicating what I like and don’t like, and I know how to communicate that in a way that isn’t upsetting.
Friday
My alarm goes off for an early flight to Miami. I’m tired, makeup-free, and have to deal with airport coffee. Since I’ve started making good money I’ve switched to flying business and honestly, I could never go back.
I arrive at the content house with the other OnlyFans girls and we unpack outfits, check schedules and talk through the weekend.
The plan is to feel TikToks, reels and collaborative videos. It’s all very suggestive, but there’s no actual sex on this trip as we can’t film that at these private properties. We take a lot of thirst traps instead. It’s all about marketing and driving traffic to our pages.
It’s the evening now, and we’re doing a lingerie shoot which has been sponsored by lingerie brand Honey Birdette which is so exciting because I love their stuff. All the girls get dolled up, and I love sitting here getting ready with them all, it feels like such a community.
For the shoot we walk down a runway, a smoke machine and lights are set up to make it all look super sexy. I have on a navy blue silky set and I love how confident I feel.
By the time we finish I’m absolutely exhausted. I shower, take off my makeup and fall asleep almost immediately.
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Saturday
We start the morning with matcha and Pilates, which is such a nice way to begin the day.
Everyone assumes these content houses are chaotic, but it’s always super calm and focused. Most of us take our health really seriously, and love to keep in shape and feeling strong.
Today is a yacht day which is so exciting! Does anything beat a day on the ocean with some gorgeous girls?
No one’s in party mode. Being surrounded by other women in this space feels supportive rather than competitive.
Later, we stream games on Kick to drive traffic to our pages.
Sunday
Today is the last day of the trip! I wake up early and have the most amazing breakfast. The food here has been so yum and super nutritious.
We film some teasy social clips and have conversations about long-term growth.
By the time I head home, I’m ready to be back in my safe space. But this trip has given me a real sisterhood and it’s been great to meet girls who understand.
This job isn’t just sex. It’s performance, admin, creativity, travel, and building long lasting relationships.
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