19 Things to Do in December Before It Disappears Into Christmas

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By December 15, every conversation is about gift lists, wrapping paper, and whether the ham will fit in the oven. A couple of years ago I carried the empty ornament boxes back up to the attic on December 28 and realized I had not been outside after dark once all month, except to load the car. Five weeks gone, and the only proof I had of them was receipts.

December is five weeks long, and Christmas is one day of it. This December bucket list gives the rest of the month somewhere to go.

Notice the Season Outside

1. Take a Walk Just to See the First Snow

When the first real snow starts falling, drop what you’re doing and get outside in it. Not after the plows come through and turn it gray. During.

Twenty or thirty minutes and a decent pair of boots is the whole cost, unless you count the $12 thermos at Walmart that keeps somebody from running back inside for cocoa. Go around the block, or just to the end of the driveway and back if that’s what you’ve got in you. It works solo, with a spouse, or with grandkids who will absolutely try to catch flakes on their tongues.

The first snow only happens once.

2. Mark December 21 as the Shortest Day of the Year

December 21 is the shortest day of the year in the Northern Hemisphere, and after it, daylight starts coming back. That’s it. That’s the whole thing. No ritual, no ceremony, just a nature and light marker worth noticing.

Two easy ways to acknowledge it, both free. Take a late-afternoon walk and watch how early the dark arrives, or eat dinner by candlelight at five o’clock because it’s already dark anyway. A pack of tealights at Dollar Tree costs $1.25 if you don’t have candles in a drawer somewhere.

Plan for about 45 minutes either way. Tell the grandkids the sun is turning around and heading back toward summer. They’ll ask questions for a week.

3. Go Stargazing for Winter Constellations

Winter hands you the clearest, brightest sky of the entire year, and it’s free. Cold air holds less moisture, so Orion, Sirius, and the Pleiades cluster show up sharper in December than they ever will in July.

A basic pair of binoculars runs about $20 to $25 at Walmart or on Amazon and shows you far more than you’d guess. You don’t need a telescope. The Geminid meteor shower peaks around December 13 and 14 if you want a specific night to aim for.

When my kids were small, we’d drag sleeping bags into the driveway in December and last maybe fifteen minutes before somebody got cold. Worth every minute.

Give your eyes a full 15 minutes to adjust, and keep phones in your pocket.

4. Visit a Winter Light Walk at a Botanical Garden or Nature Center

Botanical gardens, arboretums, and nature centers across the country run winter light installations through December, and most of them are about light and scenery rather than holiday themes. Admission generally runs $5 to $15 per person, though prices vary quite a bit by city. Buy tickets online ahead of time, because popular nights sell out and gate prices are sometimes higher.

Plan on an hour to ninety minutes of slow walking. Weeknights are dramatically less crowded than weekends, and the first time slot after dark is usually the quietest. Wear real winter boots, because you’ll be standing still more than you think and paved garden paths get cold fast.

5. Catch a Sunrise Without Setting a 5 A.M. Alarm

Here’s the one genuinely good thing about December mornings: the sun comes up late. In much of the country you’re looking at 7:15 or later, which means you can watch an actual sunrise without setting an alarm in the dark hours.

Ten or fifteen minutes on the back porch with coffee does it. If you want to make more of it, spend $3 in gas driving somewhere with an open eastern view and give it half an hour.

The flip side works too. Sunset lands as early as 4:30 in some places in early December, so an after-work walk becomes a sunset walk without any planning at all.

6. Set Up a Bird Feeder and Actually Watch It

Kids will sit and watch a bird feeder far longer than they’ll sit and do almost anything else, and December is when the birds show up in real numbers because natural food has run out.

A 20-pound bag of black oil sunflower seed costs about $20 at Walmart and lasts most of the winter. Pennington suet cakes run around $2 each and pull in woodpeckers and nuthatches. Total setup time is maybe 15 minutes.

Free version: smear peanut butter on a pinecone, roll it in birdseed, hang it with string. Grandkids can make four or five of these in an afternoon.

Keep the feeder where you can see it from a window you already pass a dozen times a day.

Slow Down and Take Stock

7. Start a Gratitude Journal With the Grandkids

Buy one plain composition notebook per kid, or share a single one and take turns writing in it. At Walmart or Target that runs about $5, and a nicer bound journal tops out at $10. That is the entire supply list.

The routine takes five minutes at bedtime. Everybody names one good thing, and you write it down with the date. Little kids who can’t write yet can dictate it or draw it.

My grandkids came up with things like “the dog let me hug him” and “we had pancakes,” which is exactly the point. Nobody needs profound.

Keep the same notebook going year after year and reread last December’s pages when you start the new ones. That reread is the part that gets you.

8. Write Real Letters Instead of Sending One More Text

Mail that isn’t a bill or a catalog has become genuinely rare, which is what makes this land so hard. Pick four or five people who would never expect to hear from you this way. An aunt, an old neighbor, a friend from your first job, the cousin you only see at funerals.

A handful of stamps costs a couple of dollars, and a full book of 20 runs $15 at the post office. Notecards are $5 for a pack at Target.

Keep each letter to five or six sentences. This is not an essay assignment, and the pressure to write something meaningful is the exact reason most people never start. Tell them one thing that happened to you this year and one thing you remember about them.

9. Record an Older Relative Telling Their Stories

Every family has a story only one person still knows, and December is when you are most likely to be in the same room with that person. This costs $0. The voice memo app on the phone in your pocket does the whole job. Plan on 30 to 45 minutes, and go in with five specific questions instead of “tell me about your childhood,” which freezes people. Ask what their first job paid. Ask what their mother was like at 40. Ask about the house they grew up in, room by room.

Email the audio file to yourself the same day so it isn’t sitting on a phone that could break. Twenty years from now that recording will be worth more than anything wrapped under a tree.

10. Make a Year-in-Review Photo Book

Shutterfly and Mixbook both run heavy December promotions, and a softcover book of 20 to 30 pages usually lands between $20 and $40 once a coupon code is applied. Waiting for a 50% off email is worth it. Cap yourself at 40 photos, because that constraint is what turns a two-day project into a two-hour one, and the auto-layout tools do the design work for you.

Back when we were paying off debt, I made these instead of buying gifts for my parents, and they were the only thing either of them kept out on the coffee table all year.

Order by mid-December if you want it in hand before New Year’s, though nothing about this needs to arrive on a deadline.

11. Write a Letter to Yourself to Open Next December

It takes about 20 minutes with a pen and one sheet of paper. Write to the version of you reading this same month next year.

Say where you are right now. What you are worried about, what you are hoping for, what your days actually look like. Name the thing you are dreading and the thing you cannot wait for. Be honest, because nobody else is ever going to read it.

Seal it in an envelope, write “Open December 2027” across the front, and stick it in the front of your file box or tape it inside a kitchen cabinet door. A pack of envelopes at Walmart is $3 if you have to buy them.

The value here isn’t the writing. It’s opening it a year later and seeing how much of what you were carrying turned out to be temporary.

12. Build a Vision Board or Set Actual Goals for the New Year

Poster board is $1.25 at Dollar Tree, and a stack of magazines from the library’s free bin or a thrift store costs a few dollars at most. Glue stick and scissors you already have. Total damage is $5 to $10.

Set aside an hour or two on a quiet afternoon. If cutting out pictures isn’t your thing, skip the board entirely and write three goals on an index card instead. One health, one money, one just-for-you.

Grown kids will sit down for this one if there is coffee involved, and it beats another round of small talk.

Put whatever you make somewhere you’ll actually see it in February, when the enthusiasm has worn off and the reminder matters more.

13. Do a Simple January Money Check-In

This takes 45 minutes and a notebook, and Dollar General sells them for $1 if there isn’t one in a drawer already. It is the single kindest thing you can do for your January self. Sit down before the month ends and add up what has already gone out in December, then look at what bills hit in January and whether anything unusual is coming due.

Car insurance and property taxes love to show up in January and surprise people.

Write one number at the top of the page: what you want to have left on January 31. Having a target beats having a vague hope.

Give in a Way That Isn’t Gifts

14. Clear Out the Coat Closet and Give the Extras Away

Pull every coat, hat, and pair of gloves out of the hall closet and be honest about which ones nobody has worn in two winters. The sort itself costs nothing and takes about an hour, even if you stop to try things on.

Most towns run a coat drive through a fire station, a church, or a school during the first two weeks of December. Call ahead, because collection bins often close early once storage fills up.

When my kids were little, I did this every December and always turned up two or three coats they had outgrown before they wore out. If the sort leaves a gap in your own closet, a warm coat at Old Navy or Walmart runs $25 to $45 on winter markdowns.

15. Do a One-Bag-Per-Room Donation Sweep

One bag per room, and no bag gets to be bigger than a kitchen trash bag. That limit is what makes this work, because it turns an overwhelming project into something you can finish on a Saturday morning in about 90 minutes.

Walk through with the bag open and grab only the obvious: the sweater that never fit right, the four extra travel mugs, the toys the grandkids outgrew two birthdays ago. No agonizing, no maybe pile.

Apart from the $6 box of trash bags, this costs nothing, and if you itemize, ask for a receipt at drop-off and jot down a rough count of what was in each bag before you hand it over. Goodwill and most local thrift shops hand them out without being asked.

16. Sign Up for an Actual Volunteer Shift

December volunteer slots at food pantries and soup kitchens fill up fast, sometimes by Thanksgiving. Check VolunteerMatch or your county’s United Way page, and if every December shift is taken, book one for the third week of January instead. That is when help dries up completely and the need has not budged.

A typical shift runs two to four hours and costs you about $4 in gas. Most places need help sorting donations and stocking shelves.

If you want to bring grandkids, ask about age minimums first. Plenty of pantries require volunteers to be 12 or 16, though many animal shelters and community meal programs welcome younger kids with an adult beside them.

17. Empty the Linen Closet for the Animal Shelter

Worn towels and mismatched sheets are exactly what animal shelters go through fastest in cold weather, along with any blanket too thin for your own bed. They do not need to be nice. Stained and frayed is fine. Gather up whatever you would not put out for guests and call the shelter to confirm they are accepting linens, since a few have storage limits. Ten minutes to gather, and you clear shelf space in the process.

If you want to add something, most shelters keep an Amazon or Chewy wish list with canned food, kitten formula, and puppy pads on it. Picking two or three items off the list runs $15 to $25 and skips the guessing entirely.

18. Donate Blood When the Supply Is Lowest

If you have never done this, December is the month to start. Donations drop off every year while people travel and get sick, and the shortage runs straight through January.

The whole appointment takes about an hour, with the actual donation lasting closer to ten minutes. It costs you nothing, and you walk out with juice and cookies. Some January drives even hand out a $10 gift card once the supply gets bad enough.

Book through the Red Cross Blood Donor app or RedCrossBlood.org, where you can filter by zip code and find a mobile drive at a library or church near you. Eat a real meal and drink extra water beforehand, because that is the difference between feeling fine afterward and feeling wobbly.

19. Do the Errand Nobody Asks For

Not every kind of giving comes in a box. Shovel the driveway of the neighbor who should not be out there. Drive someone to a doctor’s appointment. Sit with a widow for an hour on a Tuesday afternoon when nobody else is coming by.

An $8 jug of ice melt is the most any of this will run you, and most of it takes twenty minutes to an hour.

December is genuinely hard for people who have lost someone, and the calls and casseroles stop around the second week of the month. Being the person who shows up in week three matters more than anything you could wrap.

Give December More Than One Day

That countdown-to-the-25th feeling swallows the month before you notice it’s gone, and then it’s January 1 and you’re standing in a quiet kitchen wondering what happened to five perfectly good weeks.

So pick one thing and do it before the 31st. You don’t need a free weekend or a perfect plan, just five weeks you finally use instead of losing.

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